
Registered Charity No. 1135842
Our BIG News - May 10th was a very special day for BT Buddies. After almost 5 months we finally received Registered Charitable Status! You can find us here on the Charity Commission website and we are Registered Charity No. 1135842. Watch this space for an announcement on when we become registered with Justgiving (within the next 24 hours)!
I spent most of 2009 telling anyone who asked that I never wanted to become a charity, the 'politics' involved had completely put me off. But, looking at it from a business point of view towards the end of 2009 we decided it made sense.
The BT Buddies team put together our governing document and decided on 3 objectives. These are:
1. To provide information, support and assistance directly or indirectly to people affected by a primary or secondary brain tumour.
2. To advance the education of the public, in particular but not exclusively, patients, their families, carers and medical professionals about all areas relating to primary and secondary brain tumours.
3. Any other charitable purpose for the benefit of children with brain tumours, childhood cancer and similar conditions as the trustees see fit.
BT Buddies is staffed entirely by volunteers so no funds raised will be going to pay things like salaries or other staffing related costs. Myself and the trustees all agree that all funds raised for BT Buddies should go towards making sure we fulfill the above objectives.
Until now, Andrew has found talking about the work we do and the reason we do it quite difficult, however, he felt now was the time to say a little something about the last 3 and a half years and what becoming a charity means to him:
In November 2006, when Rose passed away, my world was turned upside down and it wasn't until early 2007 when Natalya and I spoke about the A4 binders she gave me with all the information she had gathered about High Grade Brain Tumours (specifically GBM IV's). I had no need for them, and to be perfectly honest, I never wanted to open one of them again.
However, Natalya, who had become ill herself at this point, said that there must be more people spending hours online trying to find a little help/guidance during their 'battle' with this life taker and, as she had gathered a lot of information by then, she suggested creating a website that pulls all this information found around the web into a single portal where people can learn more about HG Brain Tumours.
BTBuddies was born, it took many long months for Natalya to create the site and as the months past the information provided on the site grew. By March 2009 Natalya was happy enough to launch BTBuddies to the world and in the first 2 months it won awards for the information and help it provided. When we received the HONcode stamp of approval we knew that the site was providing the correct information in the right way. By mid 2009 and after much talk we decided that rather than continue fundraising for Clatterbridge Hospital we would apply for Charity Registration ourselves so we would control exactly where funds were spent.
We (Natalya) faced many hurdles during the application but finally on the 10th of May 2010 Natalya got the letter with our Charity Registration number.
This little number opens so many doors for BTBuddies, not only for the recognition and the ability to join Justgiving but, it is proof that the years of work Natalya has put into this project are helping people both today and in the future.
My Rose might have passed but BTBuddies has become her legacy and I thank my best friend, Natalya, for all her work during her own poor health.
Andrew F/O Rose
On a personal level I (Natalya) would also like to take this opportunity to thank some very special people and organisations.
Firstly, to Carl, Dawn and all at the Liberty Rose Trust, you are all stars and we are so grateful for all your help with our charity application and especially to Carl, who has listened to my ramblings a few times and never once moaned - thank you!
Secondly, to all those people that have raised funds for BT Buddies this past year, we couldn't have achieved charitable status without your support. Thank you for not just raising funds but for helping to raise awareness of brain tumours too.
Thirdly, to Carol from Andrea's Gift – thank you so much for being such a big support to me since the launch of BT Buddies both professionally and personally and I am very thankful for your friendship.
To special friends I have made along the way, B'Lynn, Gilly, Carole – I am always here for you and will never forget the losses that have brought us together xxx
To Kathy Oliver from The IBTA, Helen Bulbeck from Brainstrust, Maureen Kelly from The Neurosupport Centre, Niki from The Ethan Perkin's Trust and anyone else I have forgotten to mention – thank you all for your help and support .
And it wouldn't be right if, whilst sharing our wonderful news about becoming a charity, I didn't take a moment to reflect on why I started BT Buddies.. .
I began researching this disease on Andrew's behalf when Rose was diagnosed and continued to do so throughout her short battle. Sadly, Rose passed away before much of the information could be of any use, however, I wanted to make sure that in future others wouldn't have to search the world for more than basic information on high grade brain tumours. This website and the work that we do is all done in memory of Rose and, we will never give up providing vital information and support to those faced with a similar diagnosis.
Also, to Stefan, Mike, Dennis, Chris and all those we have known and lost since we started this journey - you will never be forgotten and all of you continue to be an inspiration to me on a daily basis.
New member joins the BT Buddies Advisory Team -We are very pleased to welcome Norfolk and Norwich University Hospital Oncologist, Dr. Ajithkumar, to our advisory team. Dr Ajithkumar works closely with the neuro-oncology team at Addenbrookes Hospital and will be helping us make sure all our treatment information is up to date and accurate as well as putting together a new section on what happens if or when a persons tumour recurs. We are very grateful to Dr. Ajithkumar for agreeing to help with BT Buddies and we also look forward to welcoming other new members to our team in the next few weeks.
New Trustee - At our latest trustee's meeting we unanimously voted to make David Grant (image, left) an official BT Buddies Trustee. David was diagnosed with Glioblastoma Multiforme in 2005 and has helped to raise awareness of brain tumours for BT Buddies in the past via the press and at brain tumour related conferences. David works full time so we are very grateful to him for continuing to support us and for his commitment to help others facing the same diagnosis as himself.
Best month so far - May 2010 was BT Buddies busiest month so far. 2785 people visited the website viewing 1055 pages, over 17,400 times! Andrew is keen on the statistics and keeps a close eye on things which in turn means BT Buddies is reaching those that need it.
Since our launch on 1st March 2009 we have seen a steady increase in visitors to the website and, whilst we wish there wasn't a need for the site, at the same time we are glad that it is helping so many people who clearly have a need for the information and support BT Buddies provides.
Weekly online support group - Wednesday was the 4th online support group session we have run and it is great to see so many people finding the group helpful. Despite the hiccups we have had with the application we use people keep turning up, and those of you that do will be pleased to hear that Andrew is working very hard to get the new chat application up and running for us asap!
The reason we started it was to help those who may not be able to get to their local support group and for those who find using their computer to chat much easier than sitting in a room full of people.
It works in exactly the same way as a normal (face to face) support group only those attending have to provide themselves with a cup of tea and a biscuit :) So far those attending have been a mixture of low grade and high grade patients, carers, family members and friends and, so long as you don't take your eye off the chat for too long it's pretty easy to follow.
The chat is open to anyone affected by a brain tumour and is run every Wednesday evening between 6pm and 8pm. You can find the group by clicking on this link www.btbuddies.org.uk/chat (note, this link will only work between the group hours stated above).
Telephone Support Group -Following the development of our online support group we are contemplating starting a monthly support group via phone conference. This would be at no cost to anyone wishing to take part. If you think this is a service you would like to see BT Buddies providing please email us and we will see how much interest there is in the next 2 weeks, before getting back in touch with you.
Hillingdon Brain Tumour Support Group (HBTSG) - BT Buddies also runs one face to face support group for people living in the Hillingdon/Uxbridge area. The group meets in a room at Hillingdon Park Baptist Church the last Thursday of every month between 12.30 and 2.30pm.
The group also has a website with the latest information on meeting dates, fundraising events, local area support services, help with benefits and work issues and more. You can visit the site at www.hbtsg.org.uk
Along with the support group meeting, co-hosts Becky and Cyril Haggar and other members of the group have been doing fantastically well raising funds for BT Buddies and the support group. Their fundraising total to date stands at an AMAZING £2304.14 and we would like to thank all of them for their hardwork and commitment to the cause!
Fundraising in memory of a beloved Dad - In spring 2009 Gilly Lavelle was thrown into the brain tumour world when her lovely Dad, Dennis, was diagnosed with a Glioblastoma Multiforme. Sadly, on 19th January 2010, Gilly's beloved Dad lost his brave battle surrounded by his beautiful family.
In honour of her Dad, Gilly, husband Tony (see image, right) and friends Kerrie, Tina and Jill took part in the BT Buddies treadmill-a-thon in Liverpool during March 2010, brain tumour awareness month. Then, on Sunday 23rd May Gilly also set out to take part in the annual Wirral Coastal Walk. Thanks to all their hardwork they have managed to raise a FANTASTIC £357!!!
BT Buddies would like to thank each of them for all the time and effort they put into fundraising and taking part in both events and Gilly, we have no doubt your Dad is very, very proud of you not only for raising such an amazing amount but for the way you continue to help others and raise awareness of brain tumours.
All funds raised by Gilly and her friends will be used to sponsor a course for newly diagnosed brain tumour patients run by The Walton Centre for Neurology and Neurosurgery and held at the NeuroSupport Centre in Liverpool. The next course starts on Thursday 1st July and runs for 4 weeks. Further information will be available soon, in the meantime, if you live in the Merseyside, Cheshire or North Wales area and would like to attend this course please email usThis e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it and we will pass your details on to the course co-ordinator.
Our BT Buddy, Chris Bradley - Sadly, as many of you know, our BT Buddy Chris, passed away on the 25th April 2010 at the age of 30. Chris left a partner, Christine, baby son Lucas, Mam Carole, brother Jay and sister Catherine and will be missed by many more family members and friends. Whilst Chris' battle was short, his impact on BT Buddies and others diagnosed with this disease will last for as long as we exsist. Chris' family will be working closely with us in the coming months on a memorial website for Chris and funds raised in events held by his family and friends will be split between a special project to help others cope with the day to day effects of a brain tumour and a trust fund for Chris' son, Lucas. More details will be posted on the BT Buddies website soon or youc can email us if you require further information Chris' memorial website and fund.
GOOD LUCK ORLA! -At 3pm on Monday 7th June BT Buddies supporter, Orla Graham, will be setting off on the 10k Flora Women's Mini Marathon in Dublin.
A few weeks ago Orla contacted us to let us know she wanted to take part in this event for a very special reason.
"I want to support BT Buddies as a thank you for all the amazing support they have given to my friend Catherine, Chris and their family over the course of his illness. Although I never got to meet Chris, I knew that he was a fantastic and very brave person through everything Catherine told me about him and by reading his blog. When I attended the funeral and heard Carole talking about BT Buddies and everything they had done I just wanted to do something small for them as I felt they were a very deserving cause."
We at BT Buddies, and Chris' family, are so grateful to Orla for wanting to run in Chris' memory and raise vital funds to help us continue providing information, support and hope to brain tumour patients, their families, carers and friends.
If you would like to sponsor Orla you can do so in any of the following ways:
click below To make a donation online
If you have any problems with the link above please email natalya@btbuddies.org.uk This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or contact Orla direct at graham_orla@hotmail.com This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it
To send a donation by cheque please make it payable to “BT Buddies” and send it to:
BT Buddies
Ground Floor
82 Vernon Road
Uckfield
East Sussex
TN22 5DY
UK
BEST OF LUCK ORLA, ENJOY THE RUN AND MAKE SURE SOMEONE TAKES LOTS OF PHOTOS FOR US!
Teenage Cancer Trust Conference – On the 7th, 8th and 9th June myself and Brain Tumour survivor, Michael Johnson will be attending this conference for various reasons, the main one being to do some research for a project we are working on for brain tumour patients between 16 and 30(ish). You can view the conference programme here and we will be sure to fill you all in on how things go at the conference and I promise we will let you all in on what this project is all about sometime over the summer!
BNOS Conference 2010 - 2 members of the BT Buddies team will be attending the British Neuro-onoclogy Associations annual conference in Glasgow later this month. You can view the programme for this event here. We will, of course, report back anything that might be of interest to those affected in anyway by a high grade brain tumour.
Behind the Mask exhibition hits Liverpool

Tony Murphy, BT Buddies Trustee and Fifi, Brain Tumour Survivor
I don't think there is anyone who attended the Liverpool Launch that won't know who Fifi is! What a little superstar!
Fifi had radiotherapy for a brain tumour when she was just 3 years old, her mask is tiny and decorated like a little princess! Fifi, her Mum Mya and her Jamjar (Grandma) made the 2 hour trip to our exhibition and it was so lovely to meet them all!
There were other visitors that made long trips to be in Liverpool for our exhibition launch. Michael, a Glioblastoma Multiforme survivor and contributor to our exhibition brought his Mum, Step Dad and brother along to see his mask and the rest of the exhibition. Thanks to Step Dad for taking a few photos for us!
We would like to thank Gilly for her helping in setting everything up and Claire for going above and beyond by staying on to hand out drinks on launch evening!
The event went well and we hope we reached a few people who may otherwise not have heard about brain tumours. The next venue for our exhibition will be announced in the next few weeks so watch this space!
Beyond BT Buddies - On 25th May 2010, 14 months after starting BT Buddies, I felt an overwhelming urge to provide a place for those who have sadly lost their loved ones to this awful disease. I'm sure we have all had one of those days where you suddenly realise you should have thought things through a bit more when you started a project, well, that was one of those days for me. It was as though someone flicked a switch inside me and said 'Wake up, you help these people every step of the way but when their loved ones journey has ended, where do you think they go?'.
With this in mind I am compiling a completely independent website from BT Buddies which will provide information and support to anyone who has lost a loved one to a brain tumour. The site will launch on 1st July 2010. If anyone would like to suggest articles for this site please email me and we can take things from there.
Neuro-oncologist Q&A -Got a question you'd like to ask a neuro-oncologist? Well, now is your chance! If you have a question please email it to us and the answers will appear in our next Newsletter which will be sent out (via email) to all those subscribed. Please note, the questions can not be specific to your medical situation, these type of questions need to be directed at the medical team looking after you.
BT Buddies Online Newsletter - Following a recent poll we have decided to start a monthly newsletter for all our followers. The first newsletter will be sent out on July 1st 2010 and all you have to do to subscribe is take a look at the menu on the left and scroll about half way down where you should see an option to subscribe, any problems please email me and I will get back to you as soon as I can.
Well, that's it from me for now! I am sure there will be plenty more news items throughout June so make sure you pop back every now and again to see if there is anything new!
Your BT Buddy
Natalya and the BT Buddies Team